I first traveled to Israel with Ramah Israel Seminar the summer I turned seventeen, after attending Camp Ramah Darom since its opening in 1997. Back then, I never anticipated returning for another year, let alone choosing to live there.
While studying English with a focus on mythopoetics geared towards language-of-conflict, I became involved in dialogue facilitation and conflict resolution at Clark University as the result of an internship with the U.S. State Department. As one who has always been involved in Israel and its affairs I became increasingly interested in the Arab/Israel Conflict, which often entered the conversation at my politically and socially conscious university. This conflict spurred friction between students and became a serious campus-wide issue. I co-founded a dialogue group to enable open discussions surrounding the conflict but understood that the only way to understand the matter more fully was to immerse myself in the conflict’s location.
In the autumn following my college graduation, I enrolled in Masa Israel’s OTZMA, a post-college service program. During my first few months in Ashkelon, I immediately connected with the Israeli people. They were direct and honest. I understood their, dry dark humor. I liked how people said what they meant and didn’t just pay lip service. When I was told to “make myself at home,” I found myself elbow deep in peeled vegetables and chores, and as much a part of the family as anyone.
I felt a strong sense of community everywhere I went—on a paratrooper base near Rehovot where I folded parachutes alongside soldiers. I also felt it in Yokneam, a small city south of Haifa where I taught English and math at an elementary school, gave guitar lessons at a youth center, and volunteered at an old age day-care center.
I even felt this sense of community in my internship with Righteous Pictures, an American documentary film company, which enabled met o travel around the country, interviewing people from many socioeconomic and ethnic backgrounds about their everyday lives, personal histories, and interconnectedness with each other.
In my life, I have spent time in many places and made friends the world over—in Georgia, Massachusetts, Luxembourg, Italy, the U.K., and Germany. I have grown used to the idea that no matter where I am, I will always miss someone. In Israel, though, there were just too many people to miss. I can’t live anywhere else.
The feeling that I might want to stay was there from the beginning, but it was while talking to a friend from Pennsylvania, that the feeling solidified. Living five minutes from the shuk in Tel Aviv, I told him about the delicious tomatoes that sold for one shekel per kilo. He laughs and said he’d just bought two disgusting tomatoes for seven dollars. My decision to stay was made.
Now in the process of making Aliyah, I plan to enroll in a Masters program in Conflict Resolution and to complete the remainder of my interviews for Righteous Pictures, which I intend on publishing in book form. In addition to the interviews I have already conducted with Jews, I have lined up interviews with Israeli-Arabs, Palestinians, Thai and Nepalese foreign workers, and African refugees for when I return.
I am very happy that I chose to participate in Masa Israel’s OTZMA. Through the educational seminars and trips, I was able to gain a greater understanding of Israeli society, see it in action, and become a part of it through my immersion. I was truly able to integrate into the Israeli community and I can’t wait to reenter it upon my return.